So your best friend is supposed to
be someone you can rely on no matter what, they are your extended family. That person is literally another you
but in a different form. You have your ups and downs but you come back and know
this person has your back no matter what. When you aren’t thinking straight
this person puts you right back on track. Sometimes they are the voice of
reason for you or you both are petty together. This person, no matter what is
going on, is your ride or die till the end.
Not
everyone can be a best friend honestly and we all have
different types. I have different flavors of best friends that play
their roles
perfectly. Being that I am a guy most times we don’t refer to other guys
as our
best friends but more like “our boys” or “we just know what it is” type
of
thing. That's my boy
and that's kind of it or we will say best friend. As men we are weird sometimes but let’s proceed. The flavor of friends I
have range from analytical, calm, cautious, fuck it, regular petty,
really
petty and turn up. My friends always are supportive with the decisions I
make
and will go with them. It’s always good not to have too many of the same
flavor
type of friends because this may go wrong sometimes. You need to find a
balance. I have that one friend who is really petty with a mix of turn
up and
fuck it but then I have another one who is a mix of regular petty,
analytical
and calm. Most of my friends are really petty and not regular petty. So
anything that’s overboard I go to my regular petty best friend for like a
2nd
verification on what my really petty friends would say. That’s only if I am not
feeling really petty at the time but yeah I am always really petty. You need a
balance on all things so you know not to be too crazy.
The moment you know someone isn’t your best friend is when
they stab you in the back. They are toxic to your health and always provide you
with bad advice. They do things that fuck up your shit. We have all had
those “oh we use to be friends” type of people in our lives. We’ve removed them
because their value dropped and they brought nothing good to the table. The
moment that someone brings bad vibes, discourages you or trips you into the
wall they can’t be your friend anymore. A best friend title is a privilege and
not something you just give to anyone. If these people don’t bring value,
encourage your growth and uplift your life then they really shouldn’t be your
best friend.
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