Let's Build

    You ever get into something with someone and hope that you could actually build something with them and it actually turns into nothing special? Like you are the one building them up and it’s not reciprocated at all. When you are supposed to be a “team” and build together but it’s not working out the way you wanted. You realize you are dealing with a person with no vision/goals for the future and they just want to stay stagnant. In the beginning they had all these ambitions but as they proceeded to get comfortable with you they just want you to just be happy with who they are. That’s great and all but the world doesn’t stand still for stagnant people. 
     We’ve all been at that stage in our lives when we just want to build with someone and leave the tomfoolery behind us. Sometimes it is just hard finding someone of quality that is on the same level as us though. We think we are getting closer but they do something to mess it up and so we move on. Whenever you decide you finally want to get into something you both should have the intention of building something great. If you’ve talked about it in the beginning then you should know where you both stand. Greatness is built over time but if you both have an understanding then you will start laying the ground work. The worst thing is to deal with someone you have to build up, while trying to build yourself up. The world doesn’t work that way. Before getting into a relationship or doing anything with someone make sure you are good and you are ready to build.
     I always find myself in awkward situations with women who realize that I have a plan for my personal growth every year. I never want to remain the same person I was the year before and I continually grow. We can grow together but you have to know what you want from life and move forward. Not everything in life can be planned but your personal growth and the direction you want your life to go in should be. You always want to continue building by yourself but life is really enjoyable when you can actually build with someone just as dope as you. Let’s build and become something better.