So personally I don’t mind going
to weddings, I absolutely enjoy them. I grew up going to weddings with my dad (wedding photographer)
so I find them entertaining. If I go by myself its cool, if I go with someone
else I am still going to have fun. I think wedding season is when everyone
decides to get married at the same time with no respect for your schedule. That’s
how you know you are in wedding season. I’ve truthfully been to 3 of 5 weddings
the past couple months and that’s a bad track record. Better than most people in
my opinion but it’s not like I didn’t try to go to all of them.
One wedding I absolutely forgot
about honestly because I had another wedding in Georgia to go to a couple weeks
later and thought his was after it. Completely my fault. This other wedding though
I told her I forgot but I really didn’t. She wasn’t having an open bar so I
made a presidential decision not to go. Call me petty but I went to a wedding
the day before with an open bar and she wasn’t going to have an open bar so
something in my spirit told me not to go. Of course I sent her a nice card with
words of wisdom, love and inspiration but I am not killing myself for a long
ceremony with no open bar. Open bars are essential at weddings and this is not up for debate. People also over think the gifts for the bride and
groom but I just say give them cash because they are going to need it. Give
them money and let them buy their own things. Keep it simple so they can’t talk
shit about you later when they open their wedding gift.
Wedding season is always a joyous occasion
but make sure you mark these weddings down on a calendar. If you have to be
reminded about the wedding by the bride or groom you are a horrible person like
me. You can send me all the invitations in the world but if you don’t send me a
meeting invite most times I will forget. I am still trying to get certain things
in my adult life right but just being able to enjoy wedding season is always
entertaining. Enter wedding season knowing that you can't please everyone and you are just here to enjoy another person's moment with them.
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