You ever have so much to say but really didn’t know how to say them? (Based the title off of a Lauryn Hill song)You just wish someone would just figure out the thoughts you were thinking and just be like “okay I understand what you’re saying.” People always have regrets of not saying what’s on their minds; instead they let those moments pass them by. Life is filled with mistakes and challenges, we have to be able to just stand firm on our two feet and say what’s on our minds.
People constantly bite there tongue on what they truly want to say to others because they fear the consequences. Why fear the consequences when everything in life is all about taking risks and taking chances? Nothing you do will ever be right, but the wrong decisions could always lead you to making the right ones later. Personally I always use to bite my tongue and never say what was on my mind, which never got me anywhere. Now though, I say how I actually feel. It’s all about saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Once you get something off your chest you feel as though a weight has been lifted off your shoulder. Whether saying something idiotic or speaking your mind, it’s better to get it out then hold it in. You have to experience the random things in life, if you don’t then are you really living? You have so much things to say . . .just say them.
“Half of life is fucking up - the other half is dealing with it.”
To a certain extent I agree you should be able to speak your mind, however you need to have discretion on the things you say. Sometime if you fly off the handle talking you could really make a situation worse than it already maybe or mess up a good one just cuz you're having a bad day. Getting everything off your chest doesnt always make things better. For those who wish to read on this, pick up a Bible (or Google) and go to Proverbs 10.
ReplyDeleteAgree with the first comment. There's a time and place for everything,and not everything you have on your mind needs to be exposed. Even when you do speak, use wisdom with your words... you never want someone to get the wrong impression.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is you ARE living even if you don't get things off your chest because sometimes your thoughts don't need to be everybody else's... God may need you to leave it in His hands and just keep it moving.
great points from both of u. discretion is the key to a lot of things
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