This topic I let sit around for awhile because it is one of those questions you have to ask yourself when you get into a serious relationship with someone. Would you allow your significant other to go through your phone unrestricted? Well would you? I’ve received 80% of my responses through, text messages, twitter and facebook and the verdict is YES. Why yes you ask it’s because if you built up that trust then what do you have to hide since you guys are serious about each other. Of course everyone needs their privacy but at one point in the relationship you give up your privacy because of the trust that you have built up.
For those who said NO their reason was that it’s your personal business of what is going on, on their phone not their significant others. If they trust you then they should know that you’re not doing anything behind their back.
The next thing that comes in to play is trust . . . do you trust the person enough that you don’t have to go through their phone? Trust is the building block of relationships, if trust is lost then more arguments tend to erupt over nothing, stress may buildup, self esteem is lost, or the relationship just ends.
Next time you are with your significant other think to yourself “Would I let you go through my phone?” Is there a trust issue or is it just because it’s your privacy you are trying to keep?
hmmm . . .this is hard to say because it could just be a trust issue but at the same time i am trying to keep my privacy.
ReplyDeleteWhen u're in a relationship there's no privacy between u 2...if u're serious with this person then there is nothing that u 2 shouldn't know about each other. This is a MUST when u get to the engagement and marital status becuz u don't wanna find out ur partner has excessisve baggage that u never knew about...so me, i don't care...my wife goes thru my phone unrestricted all the time n i trust her and she trust me becuz we r 1.
ReplyDeleteAt the end of the day every man and women has insecurities its just human nature. You can fully trust someone and still need to satisfy that curiosity and be validated so cudos to those who said yes and for those of you who said no be prepared to fan the flames of jealousy by saying no
ReplyDelete@ Rio. u are right once u reach that status of being married u guys are 1 and shoulndt be hiding anything from each other.
ReplyDelete@Sammy anytime u say no that is a big deal so people will immediatly think "im being played" or "they dont trust me" or "there is someone else" there is always that factor they will consider
i think everything is built on trust so if u trust the person enough then you will make the effort to make your cell phone more accessible to ur significant other
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