Life after college and the depression it brings has to be
the truest thing ever said. Let’s be real, when you are in school you have no
cares in the world. For some people that is, you have your parents/family taking
care of you and a bunch of friends to turn up with. Bills paid, somewhere to
rest your head, money when you need it, Sallie Mae not stalking you. You’re not
thinking too far into the future and just living for the moment. Once senior
year hits, you’re finally hit with reality. What is life after college going to
be like? Should I go for another degree? What am I really doing with life?
For some people they have been living the “life after
college” struggle while being in college. Some people don’t have the benefits
of having parents/family members to help them thru anything. They have been
working 2 or 3 jobs to pay tuition and keep food on the table. Some people do
have parents/family members to help them but the funds aren't there. So the
hustle for a place in society actually begins while in college and for others
right after. We hope that our internship provides us with an opportunity for a
full time job, that we get something in our field by the time we graduate or
that career services helps place us somewhere that can make us money. The
reality of it all is that life after college is when you really become an adult
and it sucks for most of us.
Some people are able to fall into their careers right out of
college, while others face the struggle of trying to get in the door. One of
the main reasons you won’t get hired is “that you don’t have enough
experience,” but how will I get the experience if you don’t hire me? This is
normally an excuse not to hire you instead of a legit reason. It makes sense
doesn’t it? The first 6 months out of college, I applied everywhere and kept
getting turned down because I was told that I didn’t have enough experience. My
resume fits the position perfectly but I don’t have the proper experience to
perform the job tasks. The life after college struggle is real and shouldn’t be
ignored.
You also realize that your friend circle becomes smaller.
You tend to surround yourself with like-minded people that want to grow or just
random nobodies. The people that you use to turn up with, probably still turn up
and aren’t doing anything. They might have just moved on from you and found a
new group of people to hang out with. Life after college forces you to change
into the person you will be for the rest of your life. You can always change
that but college is literally the stepping stone into your adult life. The
struggle can always set you up for something better, but nothing ever comes
easy. Everything you do afterwards is another journey in your life.
“Yesterday was disappointing
and today isn’t better. Remember there’s always a tomorrow, so make it
something to look forward to and smile”
