I feel that I always have to ask
people this sometimes because they always assume otherwise. This would be in
reference to females of course. This would work vice versa because I know some
of my female friends who have more male friends then female friends. So one of
my coworkers told me that I don’t give people a chance. I am pretty sure I give
people at least once chance. Even though if I know your going to waste my time
or if I am not interested in having you in my circle I tell you. I feel its
better to be forward with people no matter how you come off. Yes for a while I was
telling people “nah I am good, you would be a waste of my time,” but it’s not
like I wasn’t right. So to prove her wrong I have been giving everyone a
chance. Well technically not everyone a chance because not everyone deserves a
chance.
Crazy thing is people assume that
you like them right out the gate. How about I get to know you first. How can
you like someone you barely know? It baffles me sometimes but people do it.
After getting to know someone then I figure you would build some type of
feelings for them. If you think they are cool but no feelings really emerge can
we just be friends? This is usually a yes and no type of thing. If you don’t establish
what you want in the beginning people will immediately assume you like them and
want to be with them. That’s not the case sometimes. Can we just be friends and
build something? Lets lay that foundation so “maybe” something can move
further, if it doesn’t we are still well established friends. Assumptions
normally lead to disappointments, so never assume anything.
Just to prove my coworker wrong
though I have been giving people a chance and I’ve noticed that people think I like
them. Yeah not really, I am just giving you a chance to get to know you. Maybe
we could be really good friends. Not that I need more friends but maybe the
friendship will lead to something else. Never assume or expect anything from
people, go with the flow of the world and just be happy.
Also read -->> "Why Can't We Just Be Friends?"
