Hey sorry for the delay in a new topic, just focused on other things but I'm back on it.
Lost in my thoughts, I always find my self sending random texts of inspiration to people. Either thanking them for being in my life, just giving them something great to wake up to or just something to get them through the day. You really never know what someone is going through so its better to just send them something to brighten their day. A good morning phone call or text goes a long way for some people who are never use to them. It's always great to know someone is thinking about you when they wake up.
A good morning text is me putting a lot of effort into something I really don't have to send you but I choose to be that one light at the end of the tunnel for someone. When you get that text and your like "why the fuck is this person waking me up" first say to yourself "dam someone really cares enough about me this early in the morning to send me a message." Not everyone deserves a good morning message but the ones that get it you just have to cherish the little things.
I would have to say I am a cornball and when one of my friends sends me a morning text, something inspirational or thanking me for one I cheese really hard at my phone. You have to learn to appreciate the little things, so when the big things happen you will cherish them.
"A morning text doesn't only mean "good morning." It also means "I think about you when I wake up"”
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
The Bully Effect
New Blog of the New Year, I was going to post my “Things to do for 2012” but at the moment I felt that this topic was more relevant while I still had it fresh on my mind. Many of us know what bullying is and the harmful affects it has on some people but for some of you that are still in the dark, bullying is an epidemic. It is a real big epidemic for kids in high school and some in college. You may think that “oh everyone is bullied”, yes this is true but how do you bully someone to the point of them committing suicide? Also, how do you have no remorse after everything is done? It is our job to speak up and talk to someone that can help us overcome bullying. You can’t hold how you feel inside you must address it. Everyone is bullied but it is what you do after that defines who you are. Remember this quote "When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you." Always try to build off of it and never let it phase you.
On April 6, 2009 Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover hung himself with an extension cord, from his Springfield, Massachusetts home, taking his own life. This 11-year-old sixth grader died a couple days before his 12th birthday (April 17th). He was constantly teased verbally, about being gay. His mother pleaded with the school to address the issue, but it seems that Carl couldn’t take it any longer and ended his own life.
For more information about Carl check out this website http://www.carljoseph11.org/index.html
On September 18, 2011, at the age of 14, Jamey Rodemeyer hung himself because he was bullied so much for being gay. He was cyberbullied and verbally bullied. Jamey was bullied since he was in the 5th grade for being openly gay. He made videos on youtube for the “It Gets Better” project, which is a website dedicated to preventing teen suicide.
Help kids to overcome bullying, make them speak up about it. No one should be hurt to the point where they are trying to end there lives. This means we haven't don't enough to help them handle the situation. Please be aware that bullying is becoming a big problem and talk to friends about it. You can prevent it just by stepping in and telling someone to STOP.
Also when you have a chance check out this special by Anderson Cooper called Bullying It Stops Here. Great special if you want to enlighten yourself more about this situation.
On April 6, 2009 Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover hung himself with an extension cord, from his Springfield, Massachusetts home, taking his own life. This 11-year-old sixth grader died a couple days before his 12th birthday (April 17th). He was constantly teased verbally, about being gay. His mother pleaded with the school to address the issue, but it seems that Carl couldn’t take it any longer and ended his own life.
For more information about Carl check out this website http://www.carljoseph11.org/index.html
On September 18, 2011, at the age of 14, Jamey Rodemeyer hung himself because he was bullied so much for being gay. He was cyberbullied and verbally bullied. Jamey was bullied since he was in the 5th grade for being openly gay. He made videos on youtube for the “It Gets Better” project, which is a website dedicated to preventing teen suicide.
Help kids to overcome bullying, make them speak up about it. No one should be hurt to the point where they are trying to end there lives. This means we haven't don't enough to help them handle the situation. Please be aware that bullying is becoming a big problem and talk to friends about it. You can prevent it just by stepping in and telling someone to STOP.
Also when you have a chance check out this special by Anderson Cooper called Bullying It Stops Here. Great special if you want to enlighten yourself more about this situation.
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Sense Of Style
You remember when you where younger and you just got up your parents dressed you or they just put out the clothes that you could wear for the day? Please don’t act like your parents never dressed you because I can count the number of girls that came to school with the different colored barrettes in there hair and wore the dresses that looked like they where going to a wedding. The guys who always had to wear there shirts inside there pants and there pants being pulled halfway up to there stomach so you would see the outline of there socks. (Michael Jackson style)
I feel after those crazy moments that we decided to create our own sense of style. We get to high school and peoples values to stand out and be different or look a like changed. They started reading fashion blogs; make up blogs, and going to fashion websites just to get started on what they wanted to wear. If you look at Lil Wayne or Kanye West you can see there sense of style has changed dramatically. They want to stand out and be different but at the same time, they want people to take notice and follow the trend.
Once we hit college that is really the chance some of us get to reinvent ourselves and create this sense of style that we always wanted. Some people will get rid of there high school style and create there college style. You are surrounded by new people, new environment so why not create something new. At each stage of our life I feel that the sense of style we have is constantly changed by something we see and how mature we become. Instead of wearing a white tee and sneakers everywhere, we changed to a button up, tie and some nice shoes. If your sense of style has really changed you won’t conform or thirst on what everyone is doing, you will create your own thing and wing it from there.
Remember, your sense of style is something you create from your creative mind, if someone says they don’t like it, respect their opinion and tell them to fall in a hole. You are the artist and whatever you create is what YOU create, the more they judge the more they want to be like you.
Check out these two other websites
http://venivdvc.com/ is pretty much a Facebook for fashion, which allows you to mix and match your different styles. You can also see other people’s styles to create new things.
http://fashionthroughyoureyes.blogspot.com/ "Our main purpose is to show the power of fashion and how the little details of it can describe us as individuals. We want you to look at fashion through your own eyes and no one else's."
I feel after those crazy moments that we decided to create our own sense of style. We get to high school and peoples values to stand out and be different or look a like changed. They started reading fashion blogs; make up blogs, and going to fashion websites just to get started on what they wanted to wear. If you look at Lil Wayne or Kanye West you can see there sense of style has changed dramatically. They want to stand out and be different but at the same time, they want people to take notice and follow the trend.
Once we hit college that is really the chance some of us get to reinvent ourselves and create this sense of style that we always wanted. Some people will get rid of there high school style and create there college style. You are surrounded by new people, new environment so why not create something new. At each stage of our life I feel that the sense of style we have is constantly changed by something we see and how mature we become. Instead of wearing a white tee and sneakers everywhere, we changed to a button up, tie and some nice shoes. If your sense of style has really changed you won’t conform or thirst on what everyone is doing, you will create your own thing and wing it from there.
Remember, your sense of style is something you create from your creative mind, if someone says they don’t like it, respect their opinion and tell them to fall in a hole. You are the artist and whatever you create is what YOU create, the more they judge the more they want to be like you.
Check out these two other websites
http://venivdvc.com/ is pretty much a Facebook for fashion, which allows you to mix and match your different styles. You can also see other people’s styles to create new things.
http://fashionthroughyoureyes.blogspot.com/ "Our main purpose is to show the power of fashion and how the little details of it can describe us as individuals. We want you to look at fashion through your own eyes and no one else's."
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
The EX Factor
When did the EX become such a factor to some people? I feel as though if they are your EX then they are an EXample of what you don’t want the next person to be. What made them your EX? Is it that they had the qualities that you where looking for in the beginning but didn’t really stay consistent with? OR did they just fuck you over? You know how people are amazing in the first 9-12 weeks of getting to know them, they do all the right things to please you and make you happy. Then after awhile that diminishes, once they know they got you in their back pocket. You will deal with the most random bullshit that they throw at you and still stick around just because they “make you happy” or you “don’t know what to do without them.” The real reason you don’t want to leave is because you feel comfortable and they got you to that level. Once you feel comfortable you never want to leave someone no matter how bad they hurt you. You will accept anything they throw at you because you think that someone else won’t want you at all. Trust me you are 100% wrong. Know your worth before you get into anything with anybody. Do not allow them to destroy your self-esteem . . . it is called SELF-esteem for a reason. Move on with life, do you and find something better.
When did the EX become such a factor for some people?
Random situation that a couple of my friends have been through:
Have you ever been in that situation where someone you’re talking too just abruptly just leaves the “getting to know” relationship you guys had and just disappears without a trace? Come to find out they went back to their EX who they constantly BASH and had a falling out with, but there OFFICIALLY back together? The crazy thing about this is that you wasted a couple months getting to know them and spent hours with them. Then when they just up and disappear they don’t do the grown up thing, which is talk to you about it or give you an explanation. In my mind this is wrong, especially if you don’t even talk to the person and just leave. Sometimes you can’t understand why people do things; you just have to understand that life has its lessons. If you don’t completely END something with an EX then sometimes moving on is hard. People love that comfortable feeling with their EX’s that why they still consider there EX a factor in their lives.
“You have to let go of your EX to receive your next and that will be your best. You can’t embrace the future while clinging to the past.”
When did the EX become such a factor for some people?
Random situation that a couple of my friends have been through:
Have you ever been in that situation where someone you’re talking too just abruptly just leaves the “getting to know” relationship you guys had and just disappears without a trace? Come to find out they went back to their EX who they constantly BASH and had a falling out with, but there OFFICIALLY back together? The crazy thing about this is that you wasted a couple months getting to know them and spent hours with them. Then when they just up and disappear they don’t do the grown up thing, which is talk to you about it or give you an explanation. In my mind this is wrong, especially if you don’t even talk to the person and just leave. Sometimes you can’t understand why people do things; you just have to understand that life has its lessons. If you don’t completely END something with an EX then sometimes moving on is hard. People love that comfortable feeling with their EX’s that why they still consider there EX a factor in their lives.
“You have to let go of your EX to receive your next and that will be your best. You can’t embrace the future while clinging to the past.”
Monday, November 7, 2011
The Smile
What is the first thing you notice whenever you approach someone? Me personally I will notice there smile. Not everyone has a genuine smile and from that you can learn a lot about someone. I would have to say I am the BIGGEST sucker for a pretty girl with a gorgeous smile. Why? Just because I feel that is the most beautiful feature you can have besides your eyes. Your smile defines what kind of person you are. A smile tells a million stories and the one it wants to tell you can vary on the type of person smiling at you.
Smiles have their own little story depending on the person. They say that “No smile is as beautiful as the one that struggles through the tears.” As humans we tend to go through a lot of issues and if we are able to come out of those situations happy and with a smile, then we have overcome extreme hardship. To be able to put on a smile after something depressing or heartbreaking shows the strength behind your smile. That’s why each smile has its own story to tell.
If you are like me sometimes we just smile at the little things just because. I will walk somewhere and think of something just randomly stupid and start smiling. How about that text you get from that special someone and you start smiling at your phone? People then assume you’re crazy because you’re smiling at your phone. You see your crush and you give them the koolaid smile and then try to play it off like you weren’t looking. We all have our moments, and our smiles tell our stories.
“Always remember to be happy because you never know who's falling in love with your smile.”
Smiles have their own little story depending on the person. They say that “No smile is as beautiful as the one that struggles through the tears.” As humans we tend to go through a lot of issues and if we are able to come out of those situations happy and with a smile, then we have overcome extreme hardship. To be able to put on a smile after something depressing or heartbreaking shows the strength behind your smile. That’s why each smile has its own story to tell.
If you are like me sometimes we just smile at the little things just because. I will walk somewhere and think of something just randomly stupid and start smiling. How about that text you get from that special someone and you start smiling at your phone? People then assume you’re crazy because you’re smiling at your phone. You see your crush and you give them the koolaid smile and then try to play it off like you weren’t looking. We all have our moments, and our smiles tell our stories.
“Always remember to be happy because you never know who's falling in love with your smile.”
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